It was a strange night last night, starting with the two crazy ladies at the bar. I came in to “The Meat Market” with my two well dressed, classy girlfriends and James, my very nice, good looking, tall, English wingman, friend. It’s the popular new steak house on the island. All the seats were taken, but we gathered around the corner of the bar and found a little gap where we stood ,ordered drinks, and began to civilly chat amongst ourselves. Two younger women, oddly dressed, sitting near the corner, in close proximity to our little standing group, immediately let it be known with a lot of obvious eye rolling, that this was, their corner. It grew into outright aggression, when one reached over and grabbed each of our four drinks and slammed them down, to apparently center them on the cocktail napkins, which they were not completely on, and then yelled at me. ” THIS IS PALM BEACH! Where were YOU raised!”. I am relatively well known in these places and like to think I am quietly, well regarded. And as those of you who have been following this blog this year may recall, I do not suffer fools well, yet alone aggressive fools.
But I bit my tongue. I was amused by their eccentric behaviour, and stepped back to consider them. One dressed in a tank top, on tank top, with a bare lower back, with an earpiece stuffed into her left ear. She befuddled me when I tried to speak to her and she pretended like she couldn’t hear me, while all the while engaging in a conversation with her comrade. The comrade girlfriend was dressed in a very bright, twenty year old, candy pink sweater, and kelly green pants… which all looked like it came from the Palm Beach Goodwill…. The West Palm Beach one, that is. She looked like a tarted up clown. I was bewildered, because though they were very snappish, I thought I could chat them up a bit, to soften their bizarre, tense, hostility over us being near them at all. Their behaviour didn’t make sense to me. It was a weird vibe, and I wanted to make it a happy vibe.
But when I tried to speak to tank top, pink sweater rudley barked at me, ” Don’t bother her! She is the TOP DESIGNER of Lilly Pulitzer! She is busy on the phone placing her orders in Hong Kong!”… Really???… I had, had enough. I said, ” That’s interesting… because I’m friends with the “top” designer for Lilly Pulitzer. The whole corporation. Her name is Maura. She’s Finish. She lives across the street from me. Her husband is Gunther. They have this amazing cat that rides the elevator.” This was the truth. I gave pink sweater and tank top, enough information for them to know that they were “found out”. I was kind and gave them a chance to recover, just in case she really did work for Maura, but was slightly exaggerating. But no, instead, pink sweater, now embarrassed to be caught in a blatant lie, went on the attack and snarled loudly back at me, “Well, I’m a Palm Beach RICH BITCH ! Dont fuck with me!” She nearly bit me, saying it. I starred and blinked for a second to see if she was kidding. She wasn’t. She was serious.
I laughed in her face, and retorted, ” You haven’t been out of rehab very long, have you? ”
As I turned, I could hear more nonsensical exclamations, about the length of her heredity here, blah blah. ( And actually this seems to be a fairly normal, younger woman refrain these days. I’ve heard other intoxicated younger women rant, they “belong” here and everyone else are interlopers. This pretentious, bad behaviour only loudly announces their deep insecurity who they are NOT, and how they are desperate to be perceived. It’s the ” thou protesteth too much”, school of psych.)
I am finding I have don’t have time or tolerance for rude, bad behavior. I call it out quickly, and if necessary, take action to correct it. Maybe I’m becoming righteous bore. I hope not. But I just can’t stand bullies. I gave a quiet, discreet mention to the manager with whom I am friendly, that there were some bonafide crazies at the other end of the room, that probably shouldn’t be served any more. They weren’t, and left. I love odd, quirky characters, but not ones that get in my face. Bad manners and phony stories are one thing, aggression is another.
The false judge was there too. You know, the one who isn’t really a judge but is just a sociopath that tells everyone he’s a federal judge, so he can pick up women and get free drinks. He was banned for life at Buccan last week, when he threatened to have the very sweet trio of girl bartenders there “arrested” if they didn’t serve him. Which is hilarious in of itself. A federal judge is going to have bartenders arrested for not getting him a drink fast enough? That finally got him thrown out. I had researched his claim of being a judge seven months ago, when I smelled a fraud. There wasn’t a federal judge by his name appointed since 1924, and that was in the Four Corners of the Southwest, not the Miami district he said he practiced in. If he were that Four Corners judge, he’d be about 130 years old now. What amazes me is that so many people swallow another man’s bull shit so easily.
It’s as if being in Palm Beach increases people’s gullibility level. Remember, this is the place where Madoff, made off with so much. Maybe because occasionally you find yourself handing a drink over your head to a polite, tall, black guy, standing behind you, because he can’t get to the bar, and you learn the next day, it was Michael Jordan. And it really is. Or Rudy Giuliani, or Tiger Woods, or Bill Clinton. They’ve all been to Buccan,. Maybe it’s a place where anyone can be anyone. So it attracts a plethora of frauds, shysters, and charlatans…. who opportunistically reinvent themselves as needed. The roll in and out of town, with the tide, like flotsam and jetsam. A healthy dose of cynicism, or at minimum, a lack of gullibility takes you far here. Charlatans, liars and crazies…. Its not lions and tigers and bears….but it certainly isn’t Kansas either. It’s just Palm Beach.
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